How to Fly with an Infant

March 22, 2018

Flying with an infant isn’t always easy, but there are many things you can do to help make travel easier on both you and your child. Follow these tips to help make your flight go as smoothly as possible.

Respect Baby’s schedule.

When booking your flight, “think about what you would be doing with your baby at that same time at home,” notes Brianna Meighan, author of How to Fly With a Baby. “If your flight will be boarding at the exact time you would normally feed your baby, give him his meal a few minutes before getting on the plane,” Meighan says. “If you are behind schedule, that’s when you will start to see the meltdowns.”

Consider his personality too. “If your baby usually falls asleep when you’re out running errands, it may not matter what time he flies,” says Jennifer Shu, M.D., pediatrician and co-author of Heading Home with Your Newborn. “But if any little disruption sets him off, book a late-evening flight when he is more likely to sleep through the trip.”

Try to sit near the front of the plane.

Sitting in the front of coach might cost a bit more, but it can make shuffling on and off with Baby less of a pain, Meighan says. If you use a car seat, it must be in a window seat to avoid blocking other passengers. Some carriers also don’t allow them near exit rows or in first class.

Buy a second seat.

Though many airlines allow children younger than 2 to fly in an adult’s lap for free or at minimal cost, Shu and most safety experts advise purchasing a separate seat and bringing an FAA-approved car safety seat. Seats that meet FAA standards will carry the stamp: “This restraint is certified for use in motor vehicles and aircraft.” If yours does not, you will be asked to check it. And even if your car seat is FAA-approved, you should measure it before your trip and confirm with your airline that it will fit.

Pack like a pro.

Fill a carry-on tote with essentials, including extra diapers, wipes and a change of clothes for your little one, your partner and yourself. (You never know who might get thrown up on!) Also bring a rolling trolley bag for the overhead bin. Use this to hold backups of everything already stowed in your checked luggage—you’ll be glad you have them in the event of a delay. Formula and breast milk aren’t held to TSA limits on liquids, but it’s still wise to secure them in plastic bags for easy inspection and to prevent leaks. As for entertainment, just take two or three simple toys and board books, Meighan says. Forget toys that have multiple pieces or make sounds.

Know what to expect at security.

Many airports offer a special security line for families so you don’t have to feel as rushed. Roll up with your child in a lightweight stroller. Once you reach security, take her out and hold her. As the agents examine your stroller and other items, you can walk through the scanner with the baby. When you’re done, plop her back in the stroller and then check your stroller at the gate before boarding.

Don’t sweat ear pain.

Many moms worry that their sweetie will experience ear issues, but most infants don’t have any problem, Shu says. The exception: If your child currently has a cold or ear infection. Air pressure is equalized by the eustachian tube, the passageway leading from the middle ear to the back of the throat, but inflammation and mucus can throw things off balance. If this happens to your baby while in the air, have him suck on a pacifier, bottle or your breast to help open up his passages, Shu advises. Be sure to check with your physician before flying to see if your baby is ill.

Have a feeding plan.

When it’s time to breastfeed, a scarf or blanket can help keep things discreet. Prep bottles of formula at home, Shu says. Measure powdered servings inside a few bottles. Once on board, all you’ll have to do is take them from your carry-on and add water. If your munchkin is old enough to eat solids, pack baby food pouches for less mess at mealtime, Meighan notes.

Learn to diaper deftly.

Many larger airplanes now have at least one bathroom with a changing table in it, so ask the flight attendant if you don’t see one. If you’re in luck, just take your changing pad along with you. No designated spot? Change him in your lap (practice this at home first). Sit down on the closed toilet seat. Lay your baby on your lap facing you, and swap the old diaper for a new one. Or, if he’s old enough to stand, use one hand to hold him upright in front of you and the other to wipe and change.

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